Have you ever felt a deep stirring in your soul, like a gentle but persistent nudge saying, “There’s more for you”? It’s that longing for belonging, identity, and purpose that won’t let you settle.

I’ve felt that pull too—stronger at some times than others. It can feel exciting, but if we’re honest, it can also feel overwhelming. Where do you even start when you’re unsure what your purpose looks like or how to live it out?

Here’s the good news: You don’t need all the answers today. Finding your purpose is a journey of discovery, and it begins with one simple step—starting.

The 3 Stages of Purpose Awareness

Most of us move through three stages on our way to living a life of purpose. Each stage teaches us something valuable and draws us closer to who we’re meant to be.

Stage 1: Curious but Confused

This is the stage where I spent a lot of time. You feel restless, like something’s missing, but you can’t quite figure out what it is. Your mind is full of questions, and it’s frustrating not having clear answers.

Stage 2: Knowing but Hesitant

Once I began to sense my purpose, I moved into this stage—and I stayed here longer than I’d like to admit. I had an idea of what I wanted to do, but fear, doubt, and procrastination held me back. The gap between my dream and my current reality felt enormous.

Stage 3: Living with Purpose

Eventually, I reached the stage of taking action. It didn’t happen all at once, but as I stepped out in faith and committed to growth, the path became clearer. Living with purpose doesn’t mean you have it all figured out, but it brings fulfilment, joy, and peace knowing you’re aligned with God’s calling.

Reflections on My Journey

Looking back, I can see how much I learned in each stage. When I was stuck in confusion, I felt like I was wasting time. But those moments taught me to lean on God and seek His direction.

When I hesitated to act, I discovered that clarity often comes after we take the first step. God doesn’t always reveal the entire path, but He provides enough light for the step right in front of us.

I also learned the importance of surrounding myself with the right people—mentors, coaches, and friends who encouraged me and helped me see possibilities I couldn’t see on my own.

This journey taught me something powerful: Your purpose isn’t something you have to create—it’s something you uncover by walking it out.

10 Questions to Help You Find Your Purpose

If you’re feeling stuck, these questions can help you begin exploring your purpose. Take your time, grab a notebook, and write down your answers. Let them flow freely—don’t hold back or overthink.

Pro Tip: Download the free worksheet version of these questions to make this process even easier! (Go Here to Download)

1. Do you like what you’re doing now?
2. What activities or roles make you feel alive and energised?
3. What dreams or ideas have been on your heart for a long time?
4. Why do you feel drawn to those dreams?
5. What skills, talents, or opportunities do you already have that could help you pursue them?
6. Who inspires you, and what about their life resonates with you?
7. Are there people in your life who could mentor or support you in pursuing your dreams?
8. What’s one step you could take today to move closer to your purpose?
9. How willing are you to invest time, energy, or resources to grow into your purpose?
10. What will it feel like to live in alignment with your purpose?

The Path Becomes Clear as You Walk It

One thing I’ve learned is that purpose isn’t about knowing every step—it’s about taking the next one. When I started reflecting on these questions, I didn’t have all the answers. But as I kept moving forward, the path became clearer.

I realised that purpose isn’t a destination. It’s a journey of faith, growth, and discovery. The more you align with God’s calling, the more clarity and confidence you’ll gain.

Encouragement for the Journey

If you’re feeling unsure or hesitant, let me encourage you: You don’t have to figure this out alone. Talk to someone you trust, journal your thoughts, or spend time in prayer. God has placed desires and dreams in your heart for a reason, and He’s with you every step of the way.

I love this verse from Proverbs 16:9:
"A man’s heart plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps."

Your purpose is closer than you think. It’s not about being perfect or having all the answers—it’s about being open, curious, and willing to take the next step.

Take the Next Step

If you’re ready to start uncovering your purpose, download the free worksheet with these 10 questions to guide your reflection.