You Can Overcome Shaken Confidence and Develop Strong Faith
Confidence. It’s that delicate part of us that can soar one moment and plummet the next, especially when someone’s words hit us right in the heart. And it’s this shaken confidence that holds us back.
We’ve all been there—feeling the sting of thoughtless comments that make us second-guess ourselves, our dreams, and even our worth.
Her Story: From Shaken Confidence to Strength
A woman recently shared her story with me, and it was one I couldn’t forget.
She had this incredible business idea to help other women, and her excitement was palpable. Naturally, she wanted to share her vision with people she thought would cheer her on, people she trusted to understand her heart and her dreams.
Instead of the encouragement she longed for, she was met with a few thoughtless words that cut deep and left her wounded.
Those words weren’t meant to harm, but they did. They carried just enough weight to wound her heart and shake her confidence.

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Shaken Confidence Happens To Everyone
Her pain was palpable because I’ve lived it too. I know the sting of letting others’ opinions shrink me, keeping myself hidden in the shadows for far too long. It’s a heavy thing to carry, and it can leave you questioning everything.
What moved me most about her story was her unwavering strength—how she refused to let the pain define her or the hurt have the final word.
She chose to take charge of her mind and emotions, to deal with her shaken confidence by building her knowledge and beliefs, determined to reignite her passion. She chose not to let those words steal her vision. Instead, she turned them into fuel for her fire, stepping forward with renewed strength to pursue her dream.
Her story reminded me of you.
Guard Your Confidence
No matter what your situation is, there will always be moments when others’ words try to tear you down. But here’s the truth: you have the power to guard your confidence, to build it so strong that it becomes your shield against negativity.
Confidence isn’t just about feeling good in the moment. It’s about activating your potential, growing intentionally, and deciding each day to let faith and courage guide you instead of fear or doubt.
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When you invest in yourself—mentally, emotionally, and spiritually—you create a foundation so solid that no careless words can shake it.
Your Inner Voice is the Real Battlefield
Who you are shows up in everything you do.
It’s the battles within—the ones against your inner critic, your doubts, and your fears—that determine how far you’ll go.
To get what you want, to achieve your dreams, and to stand strong in the face of opposition, you need to grow. Build yourself from the inside out. Trust what God says about you more than what people say.
For the Lord shall be your confidence and shall keep your foot from being taken.
Proverbs 3:26
Grow Your Strength, Impact the World
As you grow in confidence, you naturally influence and inspire others. Your strength becomes a light for those around you, showing them what’s possible when you choose faith over fear.
Here are some questions to consider as you invest in your growth:
- What are you reading? Feed your mind with books that challenge you to think bigger?
- Are you listening to great podcasts? Are they filling your mind with inspiring, actionable ideas?
- Who are you spending time with? Do they lift you up and push you to reach higher?
- Are you journaling your thoughts and ideas? Are you writing down what God speaks to your heart?
Every day is an opportunity to grow. Even small, consistent steps can lead to big changes. Imagine where you could be a month from now if you start today.
Build Your Resistance to Shaken Confidence
Confidence isn’t about being perfect or fearless—it’s about being committed to growth. It’s about choosing, every single day, to rise above the voices that try to hold you back and to walk in the truth of who God made you to be.
So, what’s your next step? Take it today. Guard your confidence, nurture your potential, and remember: your strength will not only transform your life—it will inspire and impact others.
You’ve got this.
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